Emotional
Eating
Yesterday, out of the
blue, without any foreboding gossip or rumor, the company I work for
was taken
over by a competitor. All afternoon we sat stunned and unnaturally
quiet,
trying to absorb what had happened and what it might mean to our future.
Two hours after the
announcement of the sale was made, I walked through the office, a large
call
center divided into several teams that handle certain accounts or
patients at
different levels of care. Apparently quite independently of each other,
each
team was trying to handle the tension and the underlying anxiety in
their own
way.
What did they all choose?
You guessed it: FOOD.
We eat when we’re happy
and celebrating; we eat when we’re lonely; we eat when we’re bored.
And, above
all, we eat when we’re upset. When our whole world seems to spin out of
control, food remains the only object that can seem to keep us anchored
and
stable. We reach to it for comfort, for re-assurance, for love. And we
remain
blind to the fact that our affection for it allows it to exert control
over
us. Over the next few months, as
reorganization plans are implemented and the winds of change sweep
through the
offices of management and the cubicles of worker bees, we will reach
out, over
and over, for the comfort of eating to steady our stomachs and soothe
our
nerves.
Corporate
downsizing - just another weapon to make us fat!
Does the pressure never
stop? Perhaps when we’re dead, there is no longer any compulsion to eat
- or
maybe we are destined to go into our graves as a starving corpse who
tries
desperately to communicate with the living about the overwhelming urge
to eat.